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Top ten date ideas

Dating is about a variety of things – finding love, a secure relationship, maybe marriage, and children, but to start with it has to be about having fun.

Top ten date ideas

In Ireland 80% of singles rate a potential partner’s sense of humour above whether or not they are married! With that in mind we should certainly make sure that the opportunity to have a laugh features high in our ideas for the first few dates.

We need to leave room for conversation, but not have to talk the whole evening long – coupled with our natural first date nerves we’ll be exhausted! And do remember to let them talk, this might sound obvious, but it can take a conscious effort when you’re keen to impress.

We’ve compiled a few first date ideas here. Not everything will work for everyone, so consider what you already know about the person you’re taking out. Mr Active – if she wears high stilettos every time you see her, you might think long and hard about a hike up some strenuous mountain. We’re sure you get the point.

1. Get outdoors: Bearing in mind the above comment about the other person being up for physical activity, if they are this can be a great start. A good walk through a beautiful landscape, ideally with a pub or restaurant part way through will give you both a great opportunity to find out about each other, with plenty to talk about on the way.

2. A film and dinner: It’s such an obvious choice that it’s a bit of a cliché, but that’s because it works. The film gives you time together without having to talk – and then gives you your first mutual topic to get you started over dinner. Be careful when choosing the film that it suits you both. If you’re the jealous type think about the actors or actresses and whether you’re going to feel insecure watching them for 90 minutes or more!

3. Theatre and dinner: Take it up a notch! Going to the theatre gives you both an opportunity to dress up a bit, and we know how good that makes us feel. Make sure the play suits you both – and be sure the restaurant will still be serving when the play has finished! An alternative is to have dinner first, but that doesn’t give you the opportunity to discuss the play – but if you’re getting on you may not make the play anyway.

4. A calmer outdoor trip: How about cycling somewhere, followed by a picnic? Boys – you’ll score a lot of points for making a good picnic, or you could cheat and get some lovely salads from the supermarket. Remember to pack a rug to lie on too.

5. Champagne in the park: Utterly simple, and a delight. The fizz will soon have you chatting away, just don’t overdo it. Take something good to nibble on and a blanket too.

6. A bit of sport? You may not be a fan of bowling, but it certainly is a good ice breaker. There’s the opportunity for a couple of drinks, a nibble and light hearted competitiveness, plenty of breaks in conversation, but plenty of opportunities for it too.

7. See the sights: Go on tour in your own area but look at it through tourists’ eyes. Particularly if you live in or near a big town or city, do a bit of research and then have a good look around the place you thought you knew so well – you’ll both find out a lot that’s new to you.

8. See the animals: Whether it’s the zoo, safari park or an aquarium, almost everyone is enchanted by wild animals and again their antics will give you plenty to talk about during your date and after too.

9. Go dancing: This may scare some of us off, but if you’re both into dancing it can be great fun and physical too. You’ll laugh, touch, and have the opportunity to teach each other all at the same time

10. Try a new restaurant: OK so the film and theatre ideas are great – but perhaps that’s a bit too much and you’d rather just try a new restaurant. Think about what you order, and if it’s going to be a challenge to eat then be prepared to make light of any difficulties.

Remember this is all about having fun, getting to know each other and working out whether there’s a spark to kindle.

Be prepared, wear clothes you’re comfortable in but that look great. Have a shower, clean your teeth, it sounds obvious, but makes such a difference. If your meals have mainly come in a fast food carton for a while think about how you eat – a messy eater is truly unattractive. Be yourself! Don’t tell a tall story that makes you sound great, but that you’ll then have to keep up for maybe years to come. And enjoy yourselves!

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