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Compatibility is the key to a fulfilling relationship. It grows from the balance between two people’s personalities and aspirations and their choices in the way they live. No matter how compatible two people are – and PARSHIP is all about compatibility – each person needs to nurture the relationship and make sure that their partner is getting as much out of it as they are.


These articles and reports in this section focus on getting the best out of a relationship.


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Why compatibility is essential to a long term relationship: When we’re young and dating for the first time the relationship is often based on passion and maybe not much else. Whether that becomes physical or not probably depends a lot on our upbringing and ideals. Sadly when the passion fades often the relationship does too.  to the article

Compatibility test

What our compatibility test tells you. Success in life has a lot to do with compatibility, whether that’s in work or with our friends and partners. At work we have an interview and often complete personality tests which help our prospective employer determine how well suited we are to the team and role in question.  to the article

catholic dating

Dating outside your faith – Catholic dating. Dating outside our faith is a difficult question indeed and brings into consideration many different aspects as diverse as: our parents, our church, the strength of our religious conviction, and even our future plans.  to the article

Dr Victoria Lukats

Are the British now multiple daters rather than serial monogamists? By Paula Hall Once British singles would go out find someone special, fall in love and settle down. Now there seems to be a new norm - and it's called Manhattan-style dating. According to a new survey, unless you've said the words "exclusive", don't expect monogamy from day one. One in four UK men and over a third of women would openly date two, three or four people in the early stage of a relationship.  to the article

A real relationship really can start online

A real relationship really can start online

The key to compatibility is the way two people balance each other: how their personalities interrelate – where they are similar to each other and where they complement each other; how their lifestyle choices and longer-term aspirations harmonise … and much more.


Compatibility is at the core of the matching process on PARSHIP and at the root of the service’s success, with nearly 40% of Premium Members reporting that they have found a real relationship.


More than 30 years of academic research into relationships have built the PARSHIP matching process. Its principal component is the PARSHIP compatibility test, which assesses some 30 different personality traits, each essential to behaviour in the context of a relationship. Further fine-tuning of the matching is made with personal information supplied by each member and also on the basis of each individual’s search criteria for identifying a potential partner.


Many of PARSHIP’s Premium Members who report back with a success story say that, on first meeting their new partner, they immediately felt at ease. That’s quite an achievement on a first date – and it is proof of the principles behind PARSHIP’s compatibility matching. A real relationship really can start online.